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Please enable JavaScript on your browser to best view this site. I decided to write this article because I have seen so many submissives come into the lifestyle expecting everything to be dream-like and perfect. Being a slave can be, and is for me, a wonderful life. It is also more than I ever expected, and had someone explained the realities to me prior to my decision, it would have made my transition so much easier.

Article revised — 31 January :. I have stopped taking answers to the first poll on this definition today people voted , but you can see the results below — they show:. But here is a go at a revised definition anyway:. But I am putting it forward as a discussion point and, I guess it is closer to my idea of consensual BDSM slavery too — please tell me what you think by using the poll immediately below — and by commenting if you can. Thank you.