We are all pretty obsessed with penetration. And if you were to believe pornography—something that, at this stage, we should all know is not an accurate sexual how-to guide—anal sex is the ultimate goal when two guys get together. Dating back to the ancient Greece, anal sex played a role in the expression of same-sex sexuality albeit, with fewer varieties of lube. The art of anal sex is the thing that, both positively and negatively, has come to represent gay men. Rather, gay sex is more like firing up your PlayStation and playing Fallout 4.