Think about it. You likely talk to your friends about your sex life with partners more than self-love. We interviewed 14 anonymous women on exactly how they orgasm alone and all their techniques are pretty unique. Try some of them out for yourself and see if you stumble upon a game-changing tip.

Could you be having better sex , a better orgasm, or a better relationship? How often do you actually hear the nitty-gritty details of how you might actually achieve those things? According to Vanessa Marin , sex therapist , it helps to go into the specifics of how to masturbate , because knowing several ways to get yourself off is something everybody should have in their skillset. Maybe you've heard the advice that you need to learn how to get yourself off by masturbating.

The first time I ever masturbated, I got really lucky. Not everyone is a right-before-bed person: you might be an am-on-the-weekends person. Get yourself all set up in whatever way you need. Is it too hot or cold? Too quiet?